so how does a girl turn you off? For me its lack of confidence she has. what about you?

Oh boi this could end up being a lonnnnggg list....

Maybe I'll just keep mine short and sweet. Not having a sense of humor is the biggest turn off in the world.

There are not very many things that turn me off physically, I find myself attracted to all kinds of shapes, sizes, looks, etc. Most of my turn-offs (and ons!) are personality-based (i.e. being rude, self-centered, close-minded).

Last weekend I went camping with a group of ladies, many of which were nurses. We were telling scary stories around the fire at night and they told me about schmegma. Fun word, terrifying meaning. I couldn't fall asleep all night.
As if we really needed another reason to avoid penises.....

Hmmmm if I ask her if she has a favorite book and she replies "umm I don't read"

that's a turn off.

this kind of text (I got it a couple of weeks ago, it's real):

"u were hot en i wz waitin 4 u 2 txt bt all in vain, wil b glad if u kam over"

All of the above. Very high-maintenance, self-absorbed "it's all about me and what I can get from other people using solely the fact that I'm female (and "traditionally" hot, if this is applicable)" personalities. Self-deprecation if it's way off-base.

It's been a loooong time since I was in the dating pool, but I remember whiny clingy women being a huge turn off.

I posted to a similar topic about a year ago, and that list was long yet still incomplete. Those remain true.

Today I'll simply add:

some of the many and various ways that she may compensate for her insecurities. This covers many things.

I feel a little elitist for saying this, since I have the privilege of being very well-educated, but honestly, a woman has to have a high intellect. If she doesn't, it's a dealbreaker for me. I am looking for a mental connection; that spark of attraction simply does not exist for me without it. I need a companion and a conversationalist more than I need a cute chick or a lover.

Also, women who aren't conscious of their effects on other people (rather than obliviousness, I'm talking more rudeness, irresponsibility, hostility, unkindness, carelessness... littering... you get the point). Large turnoff.

And she's gotta be passionate about something. If not... I get bored. I don't have to share her interest, but there has to be something that keeps her going.